The Logic of Love
The Logic of Love – An experiment in Chemistry
Firstly there are two separate elements that are usually combined. The “female” and the “male”. It has been shown in previous experiments that these terms are extremely vague, as the properties of any one of these elements vary greatly. Note: Further classification may be required at a future date.
At the start each element is in an extremely agitated state. They undergo a process known as “dating” that can be very long and also alter the aforementioned properties. At some point a given element will meet a complementary element and the chemical reactions begin. These chemical reactions are called “Love”. It should be mentioned that the “Love” process is not just entirely chemical, however that will be expanded upon later. If the love is real, the single elements begin to understand that what they were living before is known as “half-life”. Some examples of real love versus “fool’s” love. Similar to “fool’s gold”, it has the outward appearance of real love, but is pretty much worthless.
Fool’s love – “I would die for you!”
Real love – “I will live for you”
Author’s Note (Biased): Dieing is easy, any fool can do it. But to truly live for someone, being there through all the good and bad, is much harder.
Fool’s love – Buys something expensive to try and please their partner.
Real love – Thinks of something personal and relevant to do for or buy their partner, for the joy it will bring.
Author’s Note (Still Biased): Thoughtful gifts are always the best. Expensive presents create more stuff to move, thoughtful presents create memories.
Fool’s love – Tries their hardest to make their partner happy.
Real love – Makes themselves happy while being with their partner.
Author’s Note (Yep, Biased): The one thing we want most for our loved ones is for them to be happy. Unfortunately, this is not something we can do for them and trying usually produces the opposite result. If we truly love each other, then making ourselves happy makes those who love us happy.
Once the process begins, often the elements themselves will actually try to alter the outcome of the experiment. Sometimes they will try to force a bonding between two incompatible elements. In other cases, two suited elements will try to prevent bonding for unimaginable reasons. In most cases each of these efforts proves futile. However, even two seemingly opposite pairs may be joined with the right catalyst.
At first love is a mixture. The chemical reactions occur mainly within the pair and not between them. As time increases either separation or a bond begins between the pair and increases exponentially. Once the bond is established the two literally become one. Some evidence of this can be seen by the following examples:
When half of the bonded couple dies, the other half does not long survive. They literally could not live without each other.
The female half (at one end of the house) yells at the male half (raiding the cookie jar at the other end), “You’ll ruin your supper.” She can often sense what he is thinking.
The male half feels ill in the morning and his feet begin to hurt. This is two weeks before he finds out his wife is pregnant. Often called a “sympathy pregnancy” he feels much of what his wife is experiencing. Strangely enough this seems to end abruptly before the actual birth.
In the opposite case when separation occurs there are often explosive results. If an inadequate catalyst was used, then the bonding was incomplete. As the pair begins to reject each other, the initial bond continues to draw them back together. This can be extremely damaging to both specimens. As the separation continues the tensile strength of the weak bond is usually pushed passed its limits and the bond ruptures dramatically. Though there is some damage to each of the elements, they are still completely capable of successfully bonding with another element in the future.
Final Author's Note: From my experience, love is not an experiment that should be tried in pieces. It doesn't have to make sense, it doesn't have to work, it doesn't have to be right. But if one should decide to fall in Love, they should do it with total conviction, total commitment and total heart. In the end you'll either be happy or wiser. Anything else isn’t logical.
Firstly there are two separate elements that are usually combined. The “female” and the “male”. It has been shown in previous experiments that these terms are extremely vague, as the properties of any one of these elements vary greatly. Note: Further classification may be required at a future date.
At the start each element is in an extremely agitated state. They undergo a process known as “dating” that can be very long and also alter the aforementioned properties. At some point a given element will meet a complementary element and the chemical reactions begin. These chemical reactions are called “Love”. It should be mentioned that the “Love” process is not just entirely chemical, however that will be expanded upon later. If the love is real, the single elements begin to understand that what they were living before is known as “half-life”. Some examples of real love versus “fool’s” love. Similar to “fool’s gold”, it has the outward appearance of real love, but is pretty much worthless.
Fool’s love – “I would die for you!”
Real love – “I will live for you”
Author’s Note (Biased): Dieing is easy, any fool can do it. But to truly live for someone, being there through all the good and bad, is much harder.
Fool’s love – Buys something expensive to try and please their partner.
Real love – Thinks of something personal and relevant to do for or buy their partner, for the joy it will bring.
Author’s Note (Still Biased): Thoughtful gifts are always the best. Expensive presents create more stuff to move, thoughtful presents create memories.
Fool’s love – Tries their hardest to make their partner happy.
Real love – Makes themselves happy while being with their partner.
Author’s Note (Yep, Biased): The one thing we want most for our loved ones is for them to be happy. Unfortunately, this is not something we can do for them and trying usually produces the opposite result. If we truly love each other, then making ourselves happy makes those who love us happy.
Once the process begins, often the elements themselves will actually try to alter the outcome of the experiment. Sometimes they will try to force a bonding between two incompatible elements. In other cases, two suited elements will try to prevent bonding for unimaginable reasons. In most cases each of these efforts proves futile. However, even two seemingly opposite pairs may be joined with the right catalyst.
At first love is a mixture. The chemical reactions occur mainly within the pair and not between them. As time increases either separation or a bond begins between the pair and increases exponentially. Once the bond is established the two literally become one. Some evidence of this can be seen by the following examples:
When half of the bonded couple dies, the other half does not long survive. They literally could not live without each other.
The female half (at one end of the house) yells at the male half (raiding the cookie jar at the other end), “You’ll ruin your supper.” She can often sense what he is thinking.
The male half feels ill in the morning and his feet begin to hurt. This is two weeks before he finds out his wife is pregnant. Often called a “sympathy pregnancy” he feels much of what his wife is experiencing. Strangely enough this seems to end abruptly before the actual birth.
In the opposite case when separation occurs there are often explosive results. If an inadequate catalyst was used, then the bonding was incomplete. As the pair begins to reject each other, the initial bond continues to draw them back together. This can be extremely damaging to both specimens. As the separation continues the tensile strength of the weak bond is usually pushed passed its limits and the bond ruptures dramatically. Though there is some damage to each of the elements, they are still completely capable of successfully bonding with another element in the future.
Final Author's Note: From my experience, love is not an experiment that should be tried in pieces. It doesn't have to make sense, it doesn't have to work, it doesn't have to be right. But if one should decide to fall in Love, they should do it with total conviction, total commitment and total heart. In the end you'll either be happy or wiser. Anything else isn’t logical.
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